Twenty Life Transforming Choices
Adoptees Need to Make by Sherrie
Eldridge
No matter how loving your
adoptive home, growing up adopted
presents unique challengeschallenges
the majority of adoptees dont talk
about.
Were you adopted as an infant or
child? If so, imagine what it would be
like to attend a gathering of all
adoptees. What would you ask them? Author
Sherrie Eldridge says adoptees might ask
each other:
· Do you ever feel alone?
· Do you struggle with fears of
rejection?
· Do you have a special place in your
heart for your birth parents?
· Do you know who to trust?
· Do you have a good self-image?
· Do you feel like you dont
belong?
· Do you ever think about a reunion with
your birth family?
Sherrie Eldridge has interviewed more
than seventy adoptees, who transparently
share their stories in Twenty
Life-Transforming Choices Adoptees Need
to Make, a book for adoptees and by
adoptees. This book is a celebration of
adoption based on the fact that adoption
can teach some of lifes deepest and
richest lessons.
Upon hearing the stories of others,
you will realize youre not alone
but are instead in the company of an
incredible bunch of people who will
inspire you to make life choices that
propel you to become all you were created
to be.
A LIGHT FOR ADOPTEES!!!,
July 2, 2003
Reviewer:
Michelle Martin from
Albuquerque, NM United States
Hi Sherrie,
I am currently reading your book,
"Twenty Life-Transforming
Choices" and it is changing my life!
I am an adoptee in Albuquerque, NM, am
almost 43 years old and am just
discovering that much of my life's
struggles have been due to my loss at
birth. Thank you! Also, thank you for the
Christian aspect of this in your book.
There is so much psychology surrounding
this issue, it is sometimes difficult to
know how God feels about it all.
As an adult adoptee, I heartily
recommend this book to anyone touched by
adoption. Sherrie is a master at putting
words to feelings- especially from an
adoptee's perspective. This book will
help many to understand why they react as
they do, why they have problems in
relationships, and why it is so hard for
adoptees to give up control, even to God.
You will be touched by the openness of
the stories shared in the book, by
Sherrie and by the adoptees who
contributed. This is not a book about
blaming adoption for all our problems,
but instead is a book that will lead to
hope and healing.