The Russian Word for Snow : A True
Story of Adoption
by Janis
Cooke Newman
Newman, a
freelance contributor to Salon and other
magazines, had never wanted children. But
her mother's death triggered in her a
yearning for motherhood. After she and
her husband, Ken, discovered that they
were unable to conceive, they visited an
adoption agency. Via videotape, the
couple fell in love with a 10-month-old
abandoned baby in a Russian orphanage. In
lovely, image-laden prose, Newman
chronicles the harrowing months before
they were able to legally adopt Alex.
Having been told by "experts"
that the baby was developmentally
disabled, they arrived in Moscow to find
him malnourished but otherwise healthy.
After three months back home completing
the expensive, bureaucratic adoption
procedures, they returned to Russia and
spent several heartbreaking weeks trying
to claim their son, negotiating with
unhelpful and corrupt adoption personnel
operating in the midst of political
instability. At one point, the Newmans
were so discouraged they considered
kidnapping the baby and transporting him
home through Finland. Their story has a
happy ending--Alex is now thriving. But
the bleak portrait of Russia--where many
orphaned children are neglected, and many
have severe physical and mental
impairments that are not always served
well by profit-driven adoption agencies
in both countries--lingers in the
reader's mind. Eight-page b&w photo
insert not seen by PW.(Mar. 7)Forecast:
As issues of overpopulation and
intercultural relations move into the
forefront of American consciousness, this
account, like Anne Fadiman's The Spirit
Catches You and You Fall Down, will find
a sympathetic readership.
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2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.
From Booklist
Newman, following her mother's death from
breast cancer, experienced a change of
heart about her long-held determination
to remain childless. She and her husband,
both in their 40s, embarked on
fertilization treatments until they
discovered an agency that arranges the
adoption of foreign children. Once they
saw videotape of a dark-eyed little
Russian boy, they were determined that he
was their son and began a six-month
process of international adoption. The
couple traveled to Russia just before the
nation's first democratic election and
witnessed the uncertainties of life
there, and the ebb and flow of
anti-American sentiment. Fearful that
political turmoil could derail their
adoption, Newman and her husband
desperately sought to achieve a balance
between pressuring and cajoling their
intermediaries. In this first-person
account, Newman conveys the emotional
roller coaster of dealing with the
ponderous adoption bureaucracy--bribes
expected and gifts required--before
securing the release of their son, Alex,
whose original name was the Russian word
for snow. Vanessa Bush
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Review
"A nail-biting adoption saga with a
happy ending."-People
Magazine
"The Russian Word for Snow is
about the alchemy of desire, courage,
grace; about the buried secrets of a
foreign land; about a little boy in a
Russian crib who tangles his fingers in
his new mother's hair. Their story is
compelling. It is poetry. It is true. It
held me transfixed as I read." -Beth
Kephart, author of the 1998 National Book
Award finalist A Slant of Sun
"The couple's fight to bring Alex
home after months of dashed hopes and
bureaucratic snafus vividly illustrates
the perils of foreign adoption."--People
Magazine
"Newman's story, told with
understated grace, reminds us that
parenthood is an internal journey not
measurable by blood or footsteps; that
life with a child is a daily opportunity
for mutual redemption in moments both
unique and fleeting." --Kate Moses, Salon.com
columnist and co-editor of Mothers Who
Think
"On one level, this is one woman's
story of going to Russia to adopt a
little boy and experiencing the
wrenching, exuberant passions of falling
love with a child. On another level, it's
every mother's story--our doubts and our
fears about what kind of mother we will
make. The writing is compelling, and
straight from the heart." --Adair
Lara, San Francisco Chronicle
columnist and author of Hold Me Close,
Let Me Go
"Beautifully written, intimately
portrayed, it's an extraordinary tale of
the power of a mother's love."
--Karin Evans, author of The Lost
Daughters of China
--This text refers to the Paperback
edition.
Book
Description
The Russian Word for Snow takes us
from Newman's efforts to become pregnant
(Chinese herbs that tasted like dirt, a
uterine alignment from a New Age
masseuse), to the first time she saw the
videotape of the little boy who would
become her son (lying naked on a metal
changing table while a woman in a
babushka tried to make him smile for the
camera), to the month she and her husband
were forced to remain in Moscow during
the turmoil of Russia's first democratic
election.
In this
memoir, Newman describes how her mother's
death from breast cancer influenced her
decision to have a child. "Pregnancy
seemed the antithesis of cancer; another
condition that caused cells to multiply
and divide, but with an entirely opposite
result." And how her son Alex,
reacted to videotape of himself in a
Moscow orphanage. "Actually, that
was another baby. I was in France."
Told with
humor and grace, The Russian Word for
Snow is a tribute to all the ways we
choose to make a family.
About the
Author
Janis Cooke Newman is a frequent
contributor to Salon.com and other
magazines. Her stories have appeared in
several anthologies, including Travelers'
Tales. She lives in northern California
with her husband and their son.
The author is
donating 10% of her proceeds of this book
to funds which provide financial
assistance to people adopting
internationally.
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